In mixer, pour San Francisco, CAS, love then shake

San Francisco isn’t alien to earthquakes. In fact, locals would probably agree that Mother Nature’s ability to shake the ground without a doubt garnishes a shared humility. Regardless of the source of tragedy, it is remarkable how simple one’s humanity becomes. Whether it was the victim’s flying above on a suicidal journey into New York’s twin towers or the recent devastation of our Haiti cousins, the truth is that people yearn to reach out and love one another before their last breath disables them from doing so. Everything else doesn’t matter.

Jeanette MacDonald stars in the 1929 The Love Parade and 1936 San Francisco where her beauty, wit and charm are inspiring. The stories playfully dance around similar themes of love and modesty in relationships. Though the times were completely dissimilar than they are currently, there are values and ideas that can be learned. Love is a bottomless well and she knows no airs. She can move masses to delight and heal hearts to no end.

This Valentine’s Day come fall in love with the California Academy of Sciences, a paradise museum. For this special day they have planned for any age Science Story Adventures and Family Nature Crafts all in the name of love. Call 415.379.8000 for more information.

Tomorrow’s birthday

Once you get past a certain age birthdays take on a different feel. Appreciation for the little things means a lot big time. Relaxation is welcome. A night in on the sofa watching a well made film is nice.

At age 10, sister’s gift of a diary with lock and key was the inkling of the elongated journey of a writer-to-be. Of all the journals, it’s the one with the most heartfelt memories. It remains in the house to date. Without it, there would have been a many of frustrated experiences lost in time.

Writing is a beautiful way to express the human soul. Whether for personal or professional reasons, everyone ought to pick up the pen now and then and write something down that means something to them. Then they should put it away and forget about it. When they’ve returned to said piece of literary expression they should note how they’ve grown.

What is a pen without her paper. What is a man without his woman. Tomorrow’s birthday will mark a new beginning . Indeed, the journey has already begun.

For giving

It’s been so long since the heartfelt broken. Time has done well to heal the wounds of another period. What’s more is the current wave of attention. Likened to affection, it feels heartfelt and good. Thank you.

This has been a time well spent. All layers of relating have been deeply understood. Words have been spoken. Communication has been positive and preserved.

This should be love. There’s so much respect, individuality and companionship it’s fair to say we work well. In other words, I love working with you.

To be for giving is volunteering because you care. It is getting up in the middle of the night for your sick child. It is sacrificing for the betterment of someone or something that you deeply feel for. To be for giving is what life is all about honey bear.

To be forgiven is heavenly. It is the blessing from the Gods. It is the grace of humanity. It is the beauty in the beast.

I give to you. You give to me. It’s sweet. It’s strong which makes me proud.

If together we are for giving to our family, careers, and health then we are truly giving to our community and society as a whole. Marriage is not just a contribution to society. Two people who are in love are a contribution to society. The legal binding only takes it to a legal level otherwise without love there simply is no point.

Two people who have a strong spiritual connection and understanding can weather any storm. Their love for each other can only ignite the love for humanity. It’s true. Being in love reminds us why we’re here on earth.

My journey to you brings me to tears of joy. My memories as a little girl sweeps me off into a whirl of emotions. To have shared so much with you reminds me of how strong you keep me in the face of fire. You never let me down.

Faith has certainly played a key component. Certainly, your style has been the most compelling to figure out. But your simple understanding compassion has cut through any façade you tried to convey. Over time, there was not a doubt in my mind that surrendering to you would be for not.

From the beginning I was certain. Even now my confidence is strong. But the journey was nothing I could have ever begun to imagine. In fact, I imagine I will be pondering all the little bumps and turns for years to come. I am for giving to you.

Brazilian chicken

It’s a favorite dish. This simple recipe is spicy, creamy and slightly haunting.
You’ll need:
• boneless, skinless chicken breasts
• coconut milk
• salsa
• chopped onion and garlic
• olive oil
• cayenne and black pepper
• salt
• a variety of spices
• ginger
• cilantro chopped

After rinsing your chicken pat your variety of spices all over the meat. On a hot oily skillet fry your meat, until thoroughly cooked, on both sides. Cover your skillet, open a window and/or turn on the fan. Remove your meat when done.

Next sauté your onions and garlic in the same skillet, perhaps adding a little more olive oil for resistance. Then add a can of coconut milk and a can of salsa (or fresh) with the cilantro. Stir on a low fire. Slice your chicken and pour sauce over meat; serve with rice and greens.

Is

Whether high or low in spirits or disposition, the point is in being. But it is pointless to be without the affirmation of another human being. It is why we date and relate to our mates. We must realize this and honor it even through the most trying times of communication.

In a time (as the 21st Century) where in a room full of people the one who speaks is deemed more intelligent. Of course, it all depends on what they’re saying. But with the magic wand of manipulation, charm and speculation they may have the power to sway the masses. Beware of that leadership because it may have no real merit in the end.

In the end, one hopes to look back with pure pride in a job well done. As we grow and mature, it would be advantageous to see generations grow and mature too. It’s the balancing act of progress now and progress as in the “bigger picture”. Environmentalism wouldn’t be a part of our vocabulary if our ancestors hadn’t stripped our natural resources in the first place.

To be responsible is merely an act of being able to respond. Not to be confused with knee-jerk reactions. On the contrary, the ability to respond requires care and forethought. To be in alignment with family, career, and health values is steering one’s life in the right direction.

As if life were a tree that is growing under the sun, she naturally branches out to touch other life forms. In response to being touched it is a sweet surprise; an anticipated joy which always arrives without expectation. Like harmonious music playing in the background of a conversation, it is only when a particular song hits you, that resonates with you personally, that one will begin to listen intensely and want to repeat it again and again. Although that first moment may have happened and is real, time is always moving forward and so it feels gone.

And so the search begins for that first precious moment. But where the true beauty (and even wisdom) lies is in the journey. For once the journey begins, despite provocations to remember; new experiences will take form and become a catalyst for greater depths and richer memories. It is within those invisible walls of security, comfort and trust that dreams will propel into action and dance on the myriad shoulders of responsible people now and forever.

Come on

When dreaming up the dream, one must remain focused. It’s ideal to stretch ideals to the limit. Imagination can only preempt what may transpire in the material. But the true goal is imminent.

Sweet duress is fine. Even a refined approach is appreciated. There’s no more sense rushing a cake then it is eating It before it’s done. Then again, when one has worked hard a treat is expected. No, the accomplishment is in redeeming qualities.

Realistically, time is beyond control. Anxiety aside, design and planning can only take one so far. At some point it’s imperative to have faith and jump in to see how one fairs. In the end, it’s the only way to really see how well things may settle.

It’s crucial to think and it’s even more important to project into the future. But the truth is now; in the moment, the here and now. So, come on and get real. That is if you really want it.

Exercise the mind

Bound to a professional athlete, awareness in health and beauty is an understatement. The where with all of nutrition, fitness and esteem play significant roles towards success. Though diet and exercise are typically deemed as a discipline they don’t necessarily need to be. An alternative approach in leading a healthy life is creativity.

When out and about walking briskly with the baby in the stroller in the neighborhood “community” begins. Drivers yield to pedestrians in the crosswalk. The baby watches the students play at recess at the elementary school. Waving to the neighborhood baker as she drives by waving back and people have communed in such a brief time.

When hiking with the baby in the carrier exercise is the furthest thought in mind. Imagination is released, fervent from all the movement. It’s an exciting time when no tape recorder or pen and pad could capture the creative buzz fermenting. The only thing to do is simply enjoy it.

This is why health is wealth. When the body is moving the brain benefits which suggests why it’s paramount to know who and how your significant other thinks. In that special moment, during a physical bond that connects the mind and heart as well is fundamental. Anything less than that is like eating a whole cake after a great workout-pointless.

Race to be not black but human

After the Civil Rights Movement it wasn’t uncommon for a black child to be asked ‘What do you want to be when you grow up?’ with the intention of answering, ‘I wanna be the first black, fill in the blank’. There was a heaviness to be great with the hope that success would humanize blacks. However, if children were treated with humanity and encouraged to be themselves then naturally they would just demand it as necessary.

Recently, cable television series Madmen exemplifies the need to react to a current panic within show business. Producers are answering the cry for a great white hope with stories from a time where people of color did not have a voice, therefore casts consists of only whites. The show is stylized and naturally audiences are literally going gaga for it. It is fair to say that the American identity is no longer just the handsome blue eyed blond haired fellow but rather a mix of who knows what. That’s a threat to say the least and studios are responding even with cheap labor reality shows such as The Hills.

Although African American youth are discriminated economically and socially nowadays with labels such as ‘at risk’, there are a plethora of media solutions which eagerly attempt to solve the racial identity crisis with complex characteristics. Nickelodeon’s television series Ned’s Declassified School Survival Guide offers Cookie a chic geek and Saturday Night Lives’ Kenan Thompson in Good Burger are some examples of the identity changes in the American Black experience.

A few racist things

Being a kid sucks. You have to wear clothes your mother picks out for you, go to school in them, learn what your teachers say, go home and practice what your teachers taught, tell your Mom how your day at school was over dinner that she’s slaved over the stove for you to eat or else no ice cream and what kid doesn’t love ice cream. You have to do homework, house work, yard work and some even have to do church work. I had the fortunate opportunity of not only being a kid just like everybody else when growing up but a being a black kid in Walnut Creek. My lips were mocked in 3rd grade, was called a nigger in 4th grade and my skin color was elected the darkest amongst my Asian friends. You’d think Californians would be more progressive. Not! Even in high school my butt was the subject of discernment and though I started a Black Student Union to raise social awareness a White Student Union was organized shortly thereafter to diffuse it.

Born black there was no freedom from it. When the subject of slavery came up in Mr.Tidyman’s 5th grade class everyone turned to stare at me. It was more than any kid should have to endure. For years I internalized the racism, made it my problem to deal with. For the most part I was a polite and responsible kid. For years I curled in my upper lip when I smiled especially on picture day. I was very forgiving. I would also talk to my Mom to gain more insight. I wondered why she didn’t arm me with more words and wisdom needed to handle these sorts of delicate issues. But then again it wasn’t a war. As an adult looking back, I know I handled those experiences all wrong. Why should a nine year old girl have to educate her school about race relations? Why should one have to accommodate so many? If education starts in the home then many homes were either misleading their kids or completely ignoring the subject but the little monsters had to have learned to hate black people from somewhere.

It’s incredibly ironic that after all of that abuse I end up organizing outreach on facebook for the 20 year reunion. Ofcourse there are exceptions. Not every single person was racist towards me growing up but no one ever stood up for me either. To me, there really isn’t much difference. It’s sad and really bad when the few that get beat up and bullied are the ones that show grace when bending the olive tree. It’s not that I’m angry or out for revenge but rather feel a deep desire to beautify what was once an ugly thing. Surely folks won’t hate on that.

The name game is lame and tame

For years women have insisted on keeping their maiden names when marrying their husbands. It’s a ritual that has been passed down but may not have provided the reason behind the custom. It’s a valid subject worthy of discussion about identity, balancing power in the relationship and empowering the modern woman. Ironically though, it is a little silly and strange to Lucy Stone over a name which is passed down from a man when arguing for feminism. It’s like comparing apples to oranges.

In the documentary film, Journey of Man Dr. Spencer Wells introduces the concept that human beings are all related by blood. He goes on to describe the process of DNA lineage which is carried through the Y-chromosome only found in men. With that scientific knowledge it seems only reasonable that women take their husbands surname in marriage. That shouldn’t deem females powerless especially since they’d be privy to why men hold the title in the family name in the first place.

Truth be told, women are special creatures in their own right. As a woman, it is a pleasure to experience life through the heart, mind and soul of the feminine species. However, men are extraordinary beasts to contend with. In Peter Gabriel’s Sledgehammer, he describes the want and need to be of service. No arguments here.

Kisses for Steven Severin

If Banshee means spirit of the dead then how ironic is it that the ever inspirational Steven Severin’s solo career is alive and well. His work having spanned over thirty years evolving with the rapid changes in the music scene is impressive. If his talents in Siouxsie and The Banshees are a myopic composite of his potential in years to come then future generations are in for a treat. There is an authentic quality which literally transposes ancient music, dance, language and culture into an intellectually deprived belly of the youth. Most recently, he has broached the silver screen with his epic attempt to eradicate the silent treatment new age folks have given the silent cinema era with his own electro-persona.

The San Francisco Film Society, a composite of media venues, screenings, classes and workshops is a longtime foundation for artistic integrity. Their San Francisco Film Festival is just one of their seemingly endless contributions to film and the Bay Area alike. Amongst their buzzing event list they hosted Severin’s Music for Silents back in January 2010 at the Mezzanine. An exciting opportunity transpired which perhaps changed history.

Another creative project Severin has recently capitalized on is the excellent and important PBS documentary Ascent of Money. With the current economic trend in the United States and abroad, the discipline to learn about the value of a dollar is a serious disposition for young people. Simply, this is a must-see. Severin’s future is serious and exciting. As he grows his work only reflects a maturity which should be celebrated and admired. It’s only fitting to project Severin as an educator, as well.

Lyle Carlson and serenity needed to surf big bad waves

Upon meeting famous surfer and local San Franciscan Lyle Carlson three years ago there was little doubt that that moment could be life-changing. His presence, stoic and assured, could certainly provide anyone with a sense of refuge. Before our interview began it was undeniably apparent from his ease of competence and natural stature that his company would command attention. Listening attentively was no large task and what was learned was paramount to leading a healthy balanced life.

Relaxed and poised, instead of sitting in a café stuck in hardwood chairs he opted for a couple of strolls around the high school track. This afforded an inherent environment to discuss upbringing, surf, film, education and politics. Surfing at age 8, raised all over the world including Asia and the predominately African American southern United States it makes sense that he acquired a universal appreciation of people from all walks of life, including him in the mix. Thus his approach to surfing was about unity.

Two years later, meeting up again but this time for tea, Lyle had evolved critically. His philosophy was acute and conclusive: the emotional relationship between human and creation is the entire purpose in everyone. From every sigh to each glance there is a yearning whether it is dormant or alive to nourish spirit. This is surfing.

Since then Lyle has been active in raising environmental awareness through fundraising and outreach. As he continues to surprise his followers, it will be a delight to see what he does next. Perhaps his work will develop interested supporters. His tender towards the educational benefits of being in harmony with nature and therefore oneself is proof enough that all children should have these skills so when they grow up they do so with love.

Sea goat feeling his way through the fire

Hell yeah, it hurts being burned. But you know what, all wounds heal. Even the ones which leave no scar will mend. It may take time but that all depends on you.

If you’re a healthy chap and you have the tools, wounds are simply parts of the process. What becomes paramount is not that you were hurt but rather that you were willing to get hurt for a greater cause. Whether fighting to protect your family or fighting for a good cause, there’s a nurturer on the other side who wants to help you heal. She is wise and strong and her love will strengthen your spirit.

People born with their moon in Capricorn are often described as detached or aloof. Impossible. The constellation coupled with Greek mythology suggests these people have a lot to offer. They are loyal, committed, responsible and traditional.

In Wes Anderson’s, Life Aquatic at the moment the protagonist (played by Bill Murray) excuses himself after just meeting his illegitimate grown son, David Bowies’ Life on Mars chimes in. A successful cappy, the songs’ ability to deepen the experience of reuniting with a loved one is profound. It shows the strength in being vulnerable. It captivates the beauty of humility.

In the end, the best strategy for Capricorn moon people is no strategy. Like surfing a humongous wave, you just have to ride it out and trust your instincts. You can sit there on the beach and wait hours for the perfect wave or you can grab your board and get into the waters. For the love of sea goats on water or land there is the opportunity to love again.

Young minds are worthy of good honorable entertainment

Suze Orman is a celebrity financial guru having made presentations on reputable television channels such as PBS. Born in Chicago, Illinois her career in economic literature began in the San Francisco Bay Area. Originally, her capital journey started in the then Buttercup Pantry on the border of Berkeley and Oakland on College Avenue across the street from La Farine Bakery, a French bakery known for their exceptional Morning Buns amongst all the rest.

In the Saturday Night Live parody of The Suze Orman Show Kristen Wiig does an outstanding impersonation quipped with the ostentatious motherly persona of Middle America. She injects constantly an exaggerated voice of concern and patsy to achieve the trust that is required within the public eye. What’s funny is not her accent or the alleged accusations of Suze Orman’s merit to give advice in the first place but rather is Wiig’s unfettered approach to gross doctrines. She simply flies off like a jet when placed in a role which defies comedy in a new and refreshing way.

In contrast to Pixar’s Finding Nemo and the shark scene, adults can walk away from SNL sketches and discuss, argue or debate the implications or innuendos. Children do not have that luxury. Their life span is too brief to be able to measure their experiences based on new forthcoming information. Truth be told, they are the biggest consumers of media and marketers exploit this. It would suffice to say that there ought to be a law which governs children’s media with the intent of protecting young minds from a barrage of unnecessary information. Children’s television and cinema is just getting too sloppy. Films such as Bambi, The Red Balloon or even cartoons like Roadrunner are still relevant and didn’t need to cheapen themselves with pop cult references. In regards to Finding Nemo, or any other relative form of mass media, children will grow up one day only to share this film with their children and will learn that they were robbed of a pure and nourishing story.

Go Wes my son

Wes Anderson’s Fantastic Mr. Fox was nominated for the 82nd annual Academy Award for Best Animated Feature Film of the year. He’d deserve it even though this is his first stop-motion cinematic contribution. His refined sensibility and powerful images make all his films to date fantastic for sure. From the inter-racial romance in Bottled Rocket to the symbiotic sibling rivalry thrust through mourning Anderson is by far the most dynamic film director in America. As he develops his craft it will always be a pleasure to see his stories unfold with the sweet venom of childhood memoirs.

Incidentally, Wes Anderson is an iconic figure in his own right. His romantic persona, deeply coated in academia and classic American wealth, dignifies the future of art beyond film. Other living legendary creators which lend to his breadth of knowledge and engaging innocent hard work are Beck and Jared Hess’s Napoleon Dynamite. With Beck it is easy to spot his original approach to music embodying a plethora of genres including hip hop to folk. With Napoleon Dynamite, audiences resonated with the main character’s subtle passion or the quiet storm of perseverance. It’s an important character that doesn’t demean as a nerd or even an underdog but rather a specific humanity that solely wants to understand. Hence, the audience is encouraged to learn.

In Wes Anderson’s Bottle Rocket there are snippets of isolation themes linking to J.D.Salinger’s Catcher in the Rye as well as Life Aquatic lending to the hub of Moby Dick. Nevertheless, Anderson speaks to a new audience, one that is hungry for interesting interpretations and intelligent dialogue of today. It just so happens that he is strong and sensual with his aesthetics. Perhaps he’s just having too much fun playing with his feature films.

Love lights the way

Romance and love can be such a fulfilling experience. It can sustain the hardest times and enhance the most benign periods in one’s life. There’s no question that humans are meant to be with others. Finding solace in knowing this may certainly pave the path for many lost souls.

In the 1998 Academy Award winner for Best Foreign Language Film Life is Beautiful is the story of a man whose love is a consistent beacon of hope. His humor and wit only begins to describe his true source of positivity. The protagonist’s occupation is a waiter which symbolizes the joy of being of help to others. It’s a selfless act of abundance which reflects the presumption that making other people happy is happiness in and of itself. There is no need for thanks or reciprocation unless of course the other wishes to do so out of pure want rather than obligation. This is love.

San Francisco, with its fair weather and beautiful views has a special event on Valentine’s Day called Pillow Fight. As if the city were indicative of the fact that people with all their responsibilities, traumas and dramas need to, every once in a while, let loose. What better way to release all negativity and open up the heart than a good old fashion row of massive pillow fighting. In short, there’s no better way. Mark your calendars’ for 2011, February 14th Justin Herman Plaza in the Embarcadero Center.

The price we pay for asinine days

In the 1978 Academy Award winning film Deer Hunter, the protagonist Michael played by Robert De Niro , enjoys hunting deer for sport. When he and friends/colleagues are drafted to war, transformed by it either psychologically, physically or both, he returns home and gives up hunting deer. In the first act (the first 30 pages) of the film Academy Award winner for Best Supporting Actor Christopher Walken’s character Nick describes their hunting ritual as something he enjoys merely for the trees. Hence, he is a poet; a man who possesses a gentle spirit and has very little desire to harm others even in his own defense.

The story takes an even deeper turn once the friends are in the trenches of the Vietnam War, survive and are able to return home as heroes. Nick’s inability to hunt represents the humanity in everyone. No one likes pain although it is accepted as a part of life. Unscathed from war Nick isn’t happy, relieved or even eager to return home. He is simply dead in terms of spirit. And without spirit, the feeling of being alive and well, then there is no point in living; one could succumb to just being a robot or zombie and going through the motions of life without leaving a footprint or caring to stop and smell the roses. It’s not that Nick’s character suggest giving up if having to face war but rather the innocence of thrusting a person prematurely into a situation like war.

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Christopher O’riley plays keys to SFIFF

True Love Waits, a classical interpretation of rock band Radiohead, mesmerizes with soft authority. Pianist Christopher O’riley translates many popular ballads including celebrated Nirvana’s Heart Shape Box. True Love Waits confounds the contemporary sound attributed with both genres. He merely captures what is missing from both ends into a disarray of beauty and dramatic pleasure.

One can listen to his work on local radio station KDFC. On Sunday nights at 7 he hosts From the Top at Carnegie Hall. Young musicians featured display their talent, skill and personality, so tune in. By the by, listen to KDFC and win tickets to the San Francisco International Film Festival. In addition to a multitude of exciting and fascinating films tributes this year include renowned actor Robert Duvall.

Respected as one of the world’s most amazing actors Robert Duvall’s work can be appreciated on film. A historical documentation of theatrical drama and comedy Duvall’s range embodies the helpless human condition which makes one vulnerable: pain. Whether he is the entrusted “brother” in The Godfather or the betrayed victim in The Conversation or the wound up surgeon in M.A.S.H. he is a champion.

Sincere adulation and pretentious charm

In the 1969 film Rosemary’s Baby, actor Ruth Gordon won an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress. The character she played, Minnie is a ruthless charmer who has no remorse for manipulating the protagonist against her best interests. She pretends to be her “mother” persuading the main character to trust her over her own instincts with cajoling remarks and an insatiable dynamism. It’s all a set up though; a trap. Unfortunately, Rosemary’s baby is the result of it.

Similarly Alien and Lovely Bones plays on the same themes realistically or of a profound imagination. In Alien, the robot symbolizes the American sociopath. It’s fair to write since there are no real robots in modern civilization which resemble a human being that Ridley Scott is suggesting the personality that acts with little, if not any remorse. In Lovely Bones, the protagonist is fatally attacked by a realistic portrayal of a sociopath. All the symptoms of a sociopath are there: isolation, inability to empathize, and lack of remorse for starters. In the 2009 cinematic success Precious, the heroine’s mother is also a sociopath with major symptoms raging all over the place. Like Little Red Riding Hood, if children are taught to be nice to others and respect authority than there is a degree of danger that they are set up to fall into like an ambush.

What is so touching about Midnight Cowboy is that the main character, Joe Buck has a tremendous amount of goodness in him although he is extremely green. When he gets involved with Ratso, played by Dustin Hoffman, the audience can witness Joe’s ability to bring out the goodness in Ratso balancing out the energies of wisdom and friendship.

Ridicule and race in social media

Post Civil Rights Movement, race was a term used to incite competition amongst Americans. Socially things got a little (or a lot) confusing and weird depending on which team one stood for. In the 21st Century, race is asinine and always will forever be.

In the 1980 film Stir Crazy, the story of two inter-racial friends, are set up to define racism as it pertains to humanity. What better actors to delineate the vile base of the racial divide than Gene Wilder and Richard Pryor? The beauty in their performance is how upon eternally entering the jail system Wilder’s character, sensitive and humane, translates how most ordinary white people would if they were innocent. On the contrary, Pryor’s character, wide-eyed and street smart, is prepared not to react how most ordinary civilized people would knowing full well that his chances for compassion are slim. Hence, blacks weren’t accustomed to being treated with civility.

Director Sydney Poitier brilliantly paints the polarized race identities of the 1980’s. Trading Places carries a similar theme of race and power. When actor Eddie Murphy’s character, a black homeless man, is transported into the elite rich culture he slowly begins to acclimate to his new and comfortable environment. The point is disarray. Race divide and power divide serves no one and hurts all.

If comedy is pain then there is no wonder why Dave Chappelle is so funny. His sensitivity as a comedian is his strength. He could feel how his audiences were not taking his material to heart but instead exploiting him. Chappelles’ deep appreciation of the tragic loss of young people to the crack epidemic is profound.

Forgiving Rachael in Rachael Getting Married

In the film Rachael Getting Married poses an original American drama. This story gets it right. A modern couple of the 21st Century which happens to be inter-racial, exchange their wedding vows over a weekend celebration at the bride’s father’s estate in Connecticut. It just happens to be the place where tragedy occured. Naturally, this sets the audience up for a dark journey into the light.

What’s so wonderful about this experience is how exacting the characters are, good or bad and how this elevates the audience into predisposition of thought. In other words, the story is told like a narrative which invites the audience to enjoy in the festivities while simultaneously appreciating the unspoken problem. And talking about the problem doesn’t necessarily solve anything. It is the protagonist’s choice to deal with all the family’s guilt in her own way. So the mood is moot.

Like any holiday where family members gather and their pasts are represented, spotlighted with nuances and innuendos, it does behoove them all to face their challenges together like a knot in a tree that refuses to untwist. It does not inhibit the plant to grow but rather take form in a new shape despite the surface debauchery of it. It’s easy to deplore beauty as something deep and unfounded but in nature, thus technology, life is way too complicated to construct like a clean sheet of paper. Sometimes the only wisdom is in the reluctant belief in allowing art to compose life from within.

Anna Deavere Smith, graduate of Master of Fine Arts at American Conservatory Theater in San Francisco stars in this praised creative document of film art. Go see it.

Clay Theater beaming character of perfection

Gutsy little movie houses like The Clay Theater at 2261 Fillmore Street need more than a standing ovation. They need masses of fans adoring their every nuance, gesture, sigh. They deserve it because they’ve been around for so long. No one argues with Great Grandma Matilda when she’s had too many glasses of eggnog at Christmas. So why resist the wisdom of The Clay Theater.

She’s probably seen many many stories, too many to share now. But there is no doubt that she is grateful and honored to have housed so many moments close to the human heart. Why, she’s been a home to many teenagers searching for a dark corner to cuddle without shame. She’s certainly heard many a roaring laughter and equally puddles of tears. She’s definitely endured earthquakes and aftershocks with a palpable fear that this may be the very last time standing but then miraculously she’s still here.

To what do we owe in lieu of the American myth that bigger is better? Everything. Go see a film at The Clay Theater where life will feel different like an old-fashioned telephone booth. Take your kids and let them bask in the refinement of the way things used to be although sensibly that way is still very much loved and needed today.

Magritte’s dreams lives on in Gondry’s reality

At an early age, infamous painter Rene Magritte lost his mother to suicide. His work suggests a conversation between very real objects and unreal situations or environments. Perhaps, more is being said here. He spoke often about surrealism which merely means dreams. When someone describes a moment as being surreal they usually mean that though they know they’re alive they cannot believe their dream is coming true, hence the shared cry, ‘Pinch me!’

Similarly, in the French 2006 film Science of Sleep (or La Science des reves) a young artist played authentically by Gael Garcia Bernal consumes bereavement through his childhood bedroom and dreams. As if his unconscious and conscious were blurred his dreams seem so real that he forgets he’s sleeping but not exactly sleepwalking. One of the most important film contributions of the 21st Century, Michel Gondry directs this story realistically and emphatically. Even the tale revolves around speaking in different languages naturally so as if reality we’re indeed a dream.

The beauty in all of this surrounds the fact that humans have the ability to create and so they may. It becomes crucial that they do every day in some little way. It’s only natural. At the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art Rene Magritte is featured online in Making Sense of Modern Art and Language and Perception. The point in dreams could be just as simple as taking an active part in envisioning one’s life. If not, there will be dreams banging down the door in your sleep, haunting the daylight hours or worse nightmares not understood. Choose to dream, especially awake.

Wedded and winging it

The fear about getting wed is simple: being stuck with someone who’s no good. It’s like standing on stage performing a play when one of the co-actors drops the ball. They forget their line. And they’re frozen rock solid.

The audience begins to stir. The director is pulling out her hair. The other actors all know the line but it would be out of turn for anyone but said actor to deliver it. The play would not make sense. In a moment of panic, the play is saved because someone improvises the scene.

The audience buys it. The backstage resumes their positions. The scene is saved for the time being. And for the sake of the play, the actors put the mistakes behind them to carry on. It’s the only professional thing to do.

But after the performance is complete is another story. Depending on the dynamics of the players is crucial. If they are close and trusting and more importantly if they like each other then perhaps it’s water under the bridge. If they learned and adopted fair tactics while growing up in all situations then perhaps, the offended may forgive the offender. On the other hand, if there are underlying problems then the play may suffer.

On stage everything has to be rehearsed but the true magic is in the moment. If a married couple can reach the other in the moment then life will be good. It’s when they can intuitively know when to act and deliver their thoughts (or lines) then a marriage works. Some marriages should last a very long time if there are no wasted words.

A woman’s quick guide to being sultry for her man

In the 21st Century men need not go out looking for a good time when they have a wonderful woman keeping the fires burning at home. With the right combination of love, friendship and hot romance the recipe for sex is complete. Women not need to be afraid anymore about expressing their sexual desires. Not only is sex natural, it can be safe, fun and an opportunity to deepen the intimate bond between partners.

Whether you’re married, married with children, cohabitating in sin or single and dating this is for everyone. No need to waste good hard earned money on strippers and booze. No need to get wasted either. No need to encourage the misguided dreams of little girls who one day wants to dance around showing off their God-given (or made) goodies. Nope, none of that is required.

Ladies join the progressive unraveling of base undignified post-feminist garbage. Pole dancing is in! Yes, even Oprah thinks it’s cool. And who doesn’t love Oprah? If she told Americans to jump off the bridge no one would do it but pole dancing was featured on her show, so there. And this is what men really want at home. They want their wives, girlfriends and lovers to strip like a professional whore (ahem, exotic dancer) and titillate their sexual appetite right after work, or before the game, or maybe even throughout it. Well, it’s a thought.

Internet conflicts and emotional intelligence

In response to a few comments made about recent articles, the point of contention is not with beliefs but rather with ethics or lack thereof. On the internet as with any other social forum it is imperative to be civil at all times. Discussions need not get heated with homophobic slurs and erroneous remarks. Respect for interpersonal-communication is paramount and anything else is intolerable.

In regards to women taking their husbands surname is certainly a personal choice. The article, The name game is lame and tame provides new information based on the documentary film Journey of Man. Specifically, it points out how men have a significant biological role in the survival of humanity. The fact that they carry the Y-chromosome indicates, in the era of socialized modern feminism, that their contribution is misunderstood. In the event of a marital union it would be socially cognitive to represent said qualities in the family by adopting his surname.

In contemporary society many women are educated and have successful careers before settling down in matrimony. Therefore, it is practical for women to adopt her husband’s surname as well as maintain her maiden name. Having nothing to do with politics, this would enable continuity if her work is closely related to her name but include her husbands, thus reflecting their union when in social situations.

Open anger in society has unethical implications unless it is reared toward protecting those who cannot speak for themselves like children. In internet forums, the written word fueled by anger is unleashed by anonymity. These concerns won’t be taken seriously unless self-control is practiced. It is a joy to bestow the natural anthropological observations and the hope is to encourage fruitful exchange of ideas.

Funny parodies and really good education

Before there were Saturday Night Live parodies there was Sesame Street. Created in 1969 Sesame Street’s mission has always been to educate urban children who may not have the same resources as more affluent communities. Transmitted on Public Broadcast Station across the country Sesame Street has broadened its influence globally including South Africa, Kosovo and Bangladesh. Over the 40 plus years Sesame Street has kept its proverbial foot in the door by keeping an ear to the floor and its finger on the collective popular pulse.

Where Pixar inserts adult parodies inappropriately such as The Shining in Finding Nemo , Sesame Street has maintained their course respectively. They’ve mastered a way to teach and entertain both children and adults alike. Their contributions from the beginning such as Jazzy Spies all the way to Feist 1234 delight the intellect and relax the conscious as pure fun.

The film documentary The World According to Sesame Street dives into the challenge of re-creating Sesame Street specifically for each international community including completely new characters that US kids would never be privy to. Similarly, many US kids who spend a significant portion plopped in front of the boob tube may slip into other cable networks and even adult targeted time zones such as AMC’s Mad Men or Law & Order.

Engage your kiddies or inner kid to at the Children’s Discovery Museum in San Jose 180 Woz Way, San Jose, call 408.298.5437 for more information.

John Barry killer instinct composer of cinema master in music

John Barry is best known for his musical contributions in film such as View to a Kill, the collaborative effort with British pop band, Duran Duran. No doubt, his role in the James Bond theme lends to his earlier days of the John Barry Seven and sounds of 50’s surf and turf. Certainly, he’ll always be remembered for the brilliantly chilling and melancholy theme of Midnight Cowboy, the beautiful story about friendship despite grim truths. Barry’s work has compiled of seemingly endless scores each worthy of their own descriptive appreciation. The truth is simply he is a legend and his greatness had small beginnings.

Influenced by his mother’s concentration in composing music and his father’s vocation in owning theaters lends the compassion that he married his parent’s interests into his own. It happens. Personally, Dad (the one with the cigar) Santiago Gonzalez was a musician/writer turned television actor before he passed in the 70’s and Mom could do anything which was required of her. Retired, she still works a 9 to 5 to date. Pursuing screenwriting, most recently preparing for the 2010 Nicholl Screenwriting Fellowship, in addition to writing daily for the SF Examiner is the appropriate combination at present.

The one true commonality that can be seen in John Barry’s style which has not been expressed or articulated in research is his ability to evoke a very masculine persona. In all the films, especially the ones which garnished accolades are experiences that are deeply rooted in the male psyche. For better or worse, the male voice in cinema certainly at some points gets lost in the technology and craft. Ironic and perhaps silly as it seems, the human experience really has to struggle to be heard through all the muck and excitement of shiny new film toys.

Sweet mercy on a roll

In the film, Tootsie the protagonist is faced with the challenge of building a relationship with his true love through befriending her as her ‘girlfriend’. It works. Initially, he is an unemployed actor of 20 years when he lands the job of his dreams which inevitably changes his life for the better. Luckily, he meets the girl of his dreams as well. Nevertheless, he is committed to his role and does whatever is necessary to appease it. What he ends up doing, unintentionally, is thrust the confidence of countless women through honesty and integrity. In other words, he doesn’t mince words.

As the SF Media Literacy Examiner it’s fair to write the incredible joyous feeling bestowed when contributing articles about film. Whether the subject is motivated by enthusiasm or a passion to right a wrong, there is an emotional commitment to deliver a compelling story. Individually, there is a voice that not only wants to reach people but also to inspire them to get up and out in the world and be a contributor in their own right. That’s why film is the medium and life experience is the way.

Mercedez means mercy in Spanish and it is a name to which it is aspired to. Born and raised in Walnut Creek, studying film and anthropology in Washington, D.C., writing for San Francisco Examiner while living in one of the more unique college towns in the US is preparation enough for Hollywood. The hope is that this career journey breeds strength, courage, compassion, and wisdom. For the love of the American English language has brought a portal symbiotic with artistic expression such as film. The truth in the goal for screenwriting is twofold. One is the simple need to be in the film community but not thrust into the public eye and the other is about wanting creative control.

When Dustin Hoffman played Michael Dorothy in Tootsie he played a man acting as a woman better than most women. Without a doubt, the back story for writing screenplays is the actor writing better scripts than most writers. Figure it out.

The reason for love

In the 1987 film Moonstruck is a story about a woman who succumbs to her desire for true love. This means the kind of love which combines friendship, passion and sacrifice. The friendship is there when she approaches her to be love interest. Her search for the truth and willingness to listen impacts him deeply. Her motivation is only to make things right.

His struggle to move on from a painful life-changing experience is met with her dignity and self-respect. With all her logic and no-nonsense attitude to life she is the perfect antidote for his self-pity. She allows him to take his aggression out on her through love making. This is passion. Although women today often can find themselves in positions of power in this film the female protagonist is ultra-feminine. She understands this about herself and finds power in being receptive.

With no intention to pursue love for romance and passion she is swept off her feet when he pursues her relentlessly. A gentleman, he takes her to the opera where she reasons a make-over befitting and therefore finds herself falling in love naturally. Here we find a reason for love. When two people help each other find the beauty in life all the pain and suffering before then seems to make sense.

Olympia Dukasis stars in this sweet love tale including Francis Ford Coppola’s nephew Nicholas Cage and the wonderful Cher. Incidentally, Dukasis is performing another comedy Vigil at the insatiable American Conservatory Theater in San Francisco. Enjoy her brilliancy and buy tickets now.

Style beats piles and piles of fear

In Sofia Coppola’s 2006 Marie Antoinette is exemplified story of fame, fortune and fun. An artistic visionary, Coppola’s eye for color has it. This is a masterpiece to adding depth to her collection of the female protagonist. Anticipation for her 2010 release is brimming with hope to delight.

In San Francisco, where Coppola’s father’s Zoetrope studios resides is a hip quality hair salon that is garnishing oodles of attention. Mercer Street Salon located at 3012 Fillmore Street promises affordable services with exceptional style. As many women (and men) will attest to, their hair is their crown and glory and not to be fettered with. Mercer Street Salon then deems a reputable business which values to be merciful with one’s locks.

Across the bay in Berkeley there is a quaint little French inspired bakery called Sweet Adeline Bakeshop. Located at the corner of 63rd Street and Adeline one can find this local spot warm with friendly service and lovely pastries. Oh, but don’t worry…coffee and sandwiches are served there too with the latter made on homemade focaccia bread. On your way out collect marzipans or blondies or even yet tres leches. It’s a vacation away from San Francisco’s hustle and bustle and who knows you may indulge the need to replenish your own personal Antoinette.

All clamed up

Do you clam up your feelings; your thoughts like the rope used to harness a tent down as if it were capable of flying off. A flying tent of emotions, juxtaposed so as to convey a myriad of ideas ready to transpose into words. The canvass flapping in the wind like astronaut cheeks when catapulted into outer space. An army green or a circus rainbow style would do. Just so much as it is tilting slightly as if it knew its purpose and was determined on getting there. Other tents would be about but not flying rather floating in orbit like stiff magic carpets with total precision of gravity as if they had never left earth. Tables set with candles and linen, chairs occupied with people dressed for an exquisite occasion, perhaps the viewing of the flying tent with purpose. A bowl of grapes, cabernet pouring in voluptuous glasses; and ladies peering out of the curtain door bestowed with sheer layering as if flies would ever get up there.

Do you resist and insist on not listening to yourself. When you do listen, are you being heard?

Those who dare not to care

Everyone has their own problems. Some are petty though real while others are of grave concerns. When basic human needs are met with challenge then the individual’s problems spill over into their community, culture and society. Thus it becomes a problem for the village.

Writing for the SF Examiner in Media Literacy and Anthropology with intent to contribute in Parenthood and Consumer Relations, is a joy. Although it is a pleasure to write daily while pursuing screenwriting, it certainly requires great effort. Working from home offers the opportunity to be a stay-at-home single mom for two young children thus enabling a strong supportive upbringing. The flexible schedule allows parenting to happen as need be. It seems like a perfect situation.

For working single mothers receiving public assistance it’s like a set up for failure. Without a bank account or credit card Examiner.com won’t accommodate wages by sending a check. Without family or support from friends, which suggests how people get into poverty in the first place, this family may suffer albeit the talents, skills and passion to be a success. Having been a victim to scam artists, con artists, straight out rapists, and criminals alike it’s no wonder poverty becomes a vicious cycle; a culture of challenges that bestow little light to meet basic human needs to survive.

If you dare to care please email info@examiner.com and request to accommodate writers who are passionate about their subject and willing to do what’s required to make things work.

Love culture in San Francisco

Love is no stranger to San Francisco. Although the Summer of Love ended many moons ago, one can still find hippies passing out flowers to strangers today. As if it were a custom, love is a contemporary part of everyday life from the civilized traffic during rush hour to community consciousness and awareness. San Franciscans just live and breathe love.

In Berkeley passion is the cornerstone to social politics, a fact in every group big or small. From food to education Berkeley knows how to dig deep and get to the root cause of problems with the intent to resolve. Perhaps, this is just tough love but it is love all the same. In the end, love is subjective and humbling, reminding the individual how precious life is. When bridging the two cities vast approaches to love the result is smart heart.

As of late, the fashion these days with the kids of the 21st century and all the young people is hipster. Love Culture, headquarters in Los Angeles is a fashion Mecca for the smart shopping girl. In the San Francisco Bay Area Love Culture in Roseville offers a broad range of styles that inspire and fulfill the fashion desire. Located at 1151 Galleria Blvd or 1681 Arden Way Sacramento; check them out. You won’t be disappointed.

Phoenix rises back to the San Francisco Bay Area

If phoenix means the universal symbol of the sun, resurrection and rebirth than the French band Phoenix must love the San Francisco Bay Area. For their 2010 tour of their most recent album Wolfgang Amadeus Phoenix, they performed in San Francisco at the Fillmore in January. But if you missed them then catch them live at The Catalyst in Santa Cruz on April 17th located at 1011 Pacific Avenue.

Their 1901 hit doesn’t merely stir the masses to their feet but it is a medley of vintage charm and modern art. That is the song suggests nostalgia for Paris in the early 1900’s while the video kicks it up with a fantastic showcase of strobe-like effects. It’s an anthem for the times as it serves the collective need to simply just dance whilst carrying much more. In the year 2010 it is the first 10 years of the 21st Century where the internet, google and facebook are pushing the envelope in space and time inner-connectedness.

If you go see Phoenix at The Catalyst make a day of it and hit the rides at Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk. Built in the early 1900’s they are the only major seaside amusement park on the west coast. From their oldest roller coaster, The Giant Dipper to their upcoming newly renovated Haunted House this attraction is a must-see. What's more, their Unlimited Ride wrist bands are affordable and make it ultra easy to enjoy the rides to the hilt for the entire day.

Awaken the senses with Sofia Coppola’s Blanc de Blanc

Upon retrieving a chilled bottle of director Sofia Coppola’s Blanc de Blanc from the refrigerator anticipation set in. Wrapped in blush pink cellophane, a gift awaited. Patiently, the plastic tie was pried apart, the crinkling bag removed and the cork popped with sweet arrest. Once one glass was poured, sniffed then met on the palate a new experience was born. The aroma of pear, apples and even pineapple were there and even though the sparkling wine is fermented in stainless steel containers a hint of buttery yams was there as well.

In the opening scene of Sofia Coppola’s Lost in Translation sets up the audience for the entire film. Pink sheer panties over the bottom of actress Scarlett Johansen simply suggest that this is a story fresh and cushiony. Indeed, the protagonist is surrounded with material wealth but is secretly in search of soul. The color usage of pink proposes a raw approach to love which seems to come to fruition in the end. It’s as if someone whispered in Sofia’s ear and said, ‘Never let go of your child-like nature, it’s too endearing on you’. Her film presents a feminine condition in new cinema that is unlike any other. After seeing this film there is a definite air of power though it beckons like a girl. There is a good reason why pink is associated with baby girls. The softness that she evokes in Lost in Translation establishes beyond a new frontier in storytelling but a plethora of ways to tell it.

Get lost in Blanc de Blanc this Valentine’s Day or any day. It is delicious and can be paired with anything including any occasion. Sofia Coppola’s Blanc de Blanc can be found with other Champagnes at local grocery markets such as Whole Foods and Safeway.

Master the music made for Lucasfilms

The riveting film introduction scores such as Vangelis Papathanassiou’s gripping passion in Chariots of Fire was burned in viewers minds before they knew what hit them. Bernard Herrmann’s irreverent exposition in Alfred Hitchcock’s Psycho engaged a widespread panic button with the pungent stench of what a sick person can look like, calm and demur as opposed to what he is on the inside, able to do harm without a moment’s notice. Academy Award winner for Best Picture in 1961 West Side Story opened the floodgates for musical fanatics with its ever so prevalent expression of jazz and movement. Romeo and Juliet’s Dance of the Knights haunts hearts today. Clearly the marriage of music and film is sacred. Where the film is seen as a sonata, it is reasonable to appreciate the role of the composer to help tell the story.

San Francisco Film Society has teamed up with Lucasfilm in its second annual approach to Youth Education. The Bay Area kids are so lucky to meet with professionals from various Lucasfilm companies and learn about their work and clandestine views in the industry. Will Files, presents Skywalker: Creating Sound for Film, Thursday February 4th at 12:00pm. This is a fantastic opportunity for educators and homeschoolers alike to fieldtrip their students into the arms of the giant George Lucas and his entourage of creative souls. An amazing experience, The Art and Science of Lucasfilm is just beginning their 2010 year-long four-part series so be sure to check back for more details.

As with last year’s screenings and presentations of The Art and Science of Lucasfilm, this year’s events will take place at Robert Redford’s Sundance Kabuki Cinemas. Don’t miss the chance to expose your students to the venue such as Sundance Kabuki. On regular days, theater tickets can be purchased not only in advance but seats will be reserved so enjoy this gift in San Francisco to the hilt.

Feast your eyes on Coppola's Zoetrope: All-Story 2009-2010 winter magazine at Cafe Zoetrope

The Godfather II won Best Picture in 1974 at the Academy Awards. Thirty-five years later the story of Michael Corleone, first generation born Italian American conflicted by power and justice still rings loud in popular culture. The stylized film directed by local hero Francis Ford Coppola has built a “family” of his own with virtual studio American Zoetrope, Coppola Winery, Café Zoetrope and Zoetrope: All-Story Magazine. In the film, Michael’s father, Vito Corleone, was practically raised out of violence in Italy where he lost his Mother, Father and Brother to a corrupt and feared member of society. Young Vito of age nine comes to America with no one, speaking no English and with practically nothing. The film skips his upbringing and shows him as an adult with a wife and baby boy, Santino. Vito is pictured as a good man in society where he works at the local deli and is a good provider for his family until…

Like a cat cornered Vito reaches into the depths of his inner resources, his legacy, when he is bullied by the neighborhood crooked benefactor. In a situation and time where there was very little justice, Vito did what he deemed appropriate for the survival of his family. On the contrary, Francis Ford Coppola has made tremendous civil contributions in the art world via film, food and culture. Zoetrope: All-Story Magazine has several winter release party’s coming up that you will not want to refuse. The guest designer for this 2009-2010 issue is Jason Schwartzman and there are some really amazing authors you won’t want to miss. Magazine patrons of Café Zoetrope will receive 30% off their total bill. Just print out this article and present it to your server. With questions or reservations call the Café staff at 415.291.1700. To check out menus click here http://www.cafecoppola.com/cafezoetrope/events/

Giddy for Vertigo’s scene at Fort Point’s Candlelight Tours

Need some amusing but earnest ideas during the quiet days of winter in San Francisco? There is nothing more inviting or awe-inspiring than taking in the historical points of our local ancestors at Fort Point, National Park Service. The army defense that never saw battle and also survived enormous earthquakes should give great comfort too in the midst of such global chaos and despair. Fort Point was the focal spot in Alfred Hitchcock’s Vertigo where the protagonist Johnnie ‘Scottie’ Ferguson played by Jimmy Stewart fishes Kim Novak’s character out of the San Francisco Bay. The scene offers a stark reminder of how much times have changed in only a short period. When cars not only looked different but the speed limit was much lower (used to be 4 miles per hour in the early 1920’s). While the clothes were more structured and symbolic as in men wore hats with their suits. Even when the character named Midge says “gay-old Embarcadero” offers a special semblance that cannot be captured in modern American dialect. Still, people remain the same and find solace in Fort Point’s inherent beauty and mystery.

Incidentally, Fort Point is often revered as the “pride of San Francisco” regularly offering self-guided tours. Their seasonal program Candlelight Tours is limited though just through February. Available only on Saturday evenings make reservations with your children, suggested age are 10 years or older 415.556.1693.

Media literacy on cell phones

There was a time when only medical doctors carried pagers in case their expertise was needed in an emergency. That seems like ages ago as the ever changing culture has everyone, children included, carrying around cell phones. Why? ‘In case of emergency’, is the rehearsed response. But how often are there emergencies? It seems as though just having the cell phone creates the tension of an urgent matter. Even in the most appropriate circumstances where a cell phone comes in handy what are children learning from this techno-accessory? Do they really need one?
Children have a barrage of incoming messages from parents, teachers, friends and the community at large on a daily basis. A cloud could captivate a youngsters’ imagination for a significant amount of time before they’ve realized it. Picture what technology does to a young mind every day. Cell Phones were not designed to educate children nor are the cell phones marketed towards children educational. So are cell phones bad for kids?

The reality is that cell phones are more than just a portable phone but rather are a constant distraction from a child’s inner voice. Amongst speed dial, tracking and parental control cell phones have games, texting and all sorts of features to entertain the young but what would they do with their time if they didn’t have cell phones? Perhaps they’d be writing in their diary, playing a board game, climbing a jungle gym or riding a bike. Maybe they’d be picking flowers, chasing butterflies, or sitting under a tree. Regardless of temperament, a child needs downtime to process all that is conveyed. A bright kid might be inquisitive. Another might be introspective. But all children need quiet time to think.

Ultimately cell phones are a tool for communication. For children, that translates into a toy to communicate with. For all the potential dangers that children may face in an emergency, cell phones seem to create more disturbances during ‘peace time’. The temptation to develop impulses for communicating with others creates in our youth a nuisance culture. Never mind the warped English language of texting. Teaching a child how to read their own emotions and how to be in touch with the person they were born to be is the most pressing instrument in their childhood.

Fieldtrips

What is it about field trips that make them so special, so exciting? Is it getting outside of the classroom, the halls, bells, the smells and seeing everyone from your class out in the real world. The conversations that are sparked seem different. The teacher is more real than before. All of a sudden, opportunities bubble and mesh with your own personal experience, with the rules of school.

In Berkeley not so long ago my daughter's class took a fieldtrip to see a musical performance at Zellerbach Hall on UC Berkeley's campus. As they walked together, some rules transformed into the real world. Walk on the sidewalk of course, don’t disturb residences lawns, if there are on-coming walkers veer to the right as folks do driving on the road. Basic things all children should know and do anyways. But still there is a searing anticipation of what is in store once they arrive. Just like birthdays, Halloween and particular holidays. It’s as if going out into the “field” or real world with the teacher and classmates intact extends an extraordinary journey of education. In the classroom, things are predictable, organized, structured, and scheduled. Outside the classroom, on a field trip anything can happen.

Last year, my little girl's fieldtrip had an event upon an event when they traveled by bus to Martinez to visit the old John Muir house. The day was planned and followed through accordingly but what wasn’t in the itinerary was the bus breaking down. It was all that my little one could talk about when she returned home safely. It was an unexpected problem that happened to them and added to the thrill of venturing out with teacher and classmates. And that is what is so spectacular about field trips. The taste for adventure within the confines of an educator’s eye and a curriculum which supports broadening the mind, stimulating the soul and proving through repetition that one can be an active participant in life and still be okay.

Naturally, many unexpected events can and do occur on school campus but there is a profound familiarity ingrained in them just like being at home. It’s all too easy to take their environment for granted. School is a very influential place. Friends are formed. Ideas are inspired. Behaviors are modified. Everyone is growing. It may be an institution but the children, teachers and community alike make it whatever it may be. When field trips happen it’s likened to taking a much needed vacation. The learning doesn’t stop in fact it speeds up the discovery in an effervescent way. Upon returning, energy is brought back into the classroom; brought back into them.